From the Editor
Holidays 2010—Looking Back on a Great Year; Looking Forward to a Truly Exciting One
by Gayle Uchida, Manager of Member Services/Operations
Hi Villagers:
It’s December, the final month of this year which seems to have flown by faster than ever.
As we publish this final 2010 edition of the Village newsletter I want to thank you for your strong and loyal support of this Village we all love.
We’re hoping to see you at our Members’ Holiday Party on December 15th to celebrate the season and toast this year while looking forward to an even more exciting New Year for the Village.
A big change is coming to the SF Village office as we will be moving into the Institute on Aging’s brand new building on Geary/Arguello as their tenant. We are thrilled to have such a key partner that has invited us to house our office within their Senior Campus. The January issue will have all the details as our move date is being confirmed.
On another note, this issue has two guests, Diane Wilson of Agewise Consulting, an approved service provider and a column called B’s Beef, authored by our own Villager--Barbara Hancock. Thanks to Barbara for her initiative.
Here’s wishing you all a safe and happy Holidays!
Best, Gayle Uchida, Editor and Publisher
Holiday Party Reminder
We hope to see you again this year or if you weren’t there last year, don’t miss this one!
The Village Holiday Party is on Wednesday, December 15th at Glady Thacher’s from 6:00-8:00PM.
Her address is 3979 Washington, near Arguello. Thanks to Glady who is generously opening her house again as party central for Villagers this year.
Repeating the success of the last one, this will be an opportunity to taste the finger food favorites of our marvelous Village cooks, meet friends, make new ones and just have an enjoyable evening together.
 Guest Contributor
B's Beef - Ho Ho Ho
by B. E. K. Hancock, San Francisco Village Member
It used to be one didn't have to get into the Holiday spirit until after Thanksgiving. Now it seems that every year tree ornaments, toy commercials and Christmas blockbuster movie ads start sprouting everywhere, sometimes already in late August.
But of course we know that in order to be good, patriotic citizens we must buy, spend, consume, purchase, acquire and accumulate and make this our number one priority at all times. This commercial chorus seems to reach its most blaring crescendo at Christmas time.
Some kind of midwinter celebration has been with those of us of European ancestry, particularly northern, even before it became a major Christian event. People came together to share their hope of surviving through the darkest winter times and exchange gifts of food and materials to cheer each other on and help each other out. Christmas as we know it also used to be about families and friends loving, sharing and being grateful for what life had given them throughout the year.
Now we have parents battling it out in the toy aisle over the latest version of "Tickle-me-Elmo". Families of modest means max out their credit cards to fill shopping carts with cheap playthings and gizmos, more than half of which will either break or be abandoned soon after the first of the year. Stress, not jollity, dominates the weeks and days leading up to the big payoff under the tree. Eons ago (in my tender youth) kids would be delighted to get a new outfit for a favorite doll or an addition to the train set. Now our junior consumers send off lengthy wish lists to North Pole, Inc. listing ten, twenty or more must haves.
What if we brought back the quaint idea of making something for someone for Christmas?
I remember happily painting my six-year-old artistic visions onto old glass pickle jars. My mother would then fill them with bath salts and make various relatives and acquaintances happy with these "priceless" gifts. How about knitting a scarf, baking great grandma's special spice cookies, cooking up a batch of jams or preserves, or putting together a thoughtfully personalized coupon booklet to be redeemed throughout the following year: a baby-free evening out for a young couple, a trip to a football game for dad (and/or mom), six scrabble sessions with an ageing but still very sharp relative? "I'll help you clean out your garage; you name the date" can be a huge gift.
All well and good, you may say, but won't this hurt business?
I have to confess that, after Nine 11, I was shocked to hear the main message to Americans be: "Go forth and shop!" I believe that we can curb the "greed is good" monster while still doing justice to our economy. Just like the "slow food" and "locavore" movements haven't threatened the survival of big food manufacturers, giving something home made will not destroy the capitalist system we know and love.
If you need an extra nudge away from the checkout counter lines and the manic mall scene sit down with a child and reread Dr. Seuss' priceless classic: "How the Grinch Stole Christmas".
Ho ho ho -- and Happy Holidays to you too!
Barbara Hancock 415-750-0865 ladybekh@gmail.com
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Welcome to our New Members
Welcome aboard new members who have joined the Village adding to our membership growth for 2010.
Bill Bessey, Dione Bowers, Marilyn Hayward, Phyllis Lund, Bonnie McClintock, Tom Purvis. We hope you join us at the Holiday Party.
Donate to SF Village this Holiday Season!
by Christabel Cheung, Executive Director
We need your support. This New Year will bring many great things to SF Village members, but only if we have the resources to build programs and services and to maintain our infrastructure.
This past year the generous support of our donors has brought major accomplishments in developing specific new service benefits for our growing SFV membership:
- 24-Hour Crisis Phone Service from a Live Person!
- Daily Medication Reminders
- Daily Check-In Calls
- TYZE Personal Networks for Online Organization of Care and Support
- Transition to Home Services for Hospital Discharge Needs
SF Village is committed to helping our members put off assisted living for as long as comfortably possible, and we are growing our capacity to build the social capital and offerings needed to accomplish this ambitious goal.
Please consider making a tax-deductible donation to SF Village. Just as much as you need the village, the village also needs your support. You can make checks payable to San Francisco Village, 3330 Geary Blvd, Suite 3E, San Francisco, CA 94118.
Happy Holidays!
Health Tips
by Tom Benet, San Francisco Village Member
As the "mature" years set in, the condition of one's physical state becomes of increasing concern. Indeed, a gathering of gents and ladies in their "golden years" will often devolve into what is lightly referred to as an "organ recital." Your own doctor is, of course, the best person with whom to consult on any medical concern. But there are also some interesting tips on how to stay in shape that are no further away than the click of a computer mouse.
One broad-ranging service can be found on the Internet at www.aarp.org/health. This is the AARP (American Association of Retired Persons) web site and it is full of interesting offerings. The non-profit organization for people over 50 lists lists, for instance, in its "featured groups", something called "Fat 2 Fit" that promises to get one "into the spirit of healthy living without skimping on the fun." There are also suggestions on how to save on eyewear, hearing care and prescriptions.
There is a section listed under the title "Stay Sharp (and Have Fun While You're at It)" that will give you a chance to "challenge your mind with brain games." Tennis Star Martina Navratilova offers an "anti-aging posture program" with tips on keeping your muscles strong and body aligned. Patricia Barry - "Ms. Medicare" - provides expert advice on that health program. There seems to be something for just about everyone interested in more health-oriented information.
Another Internet link can be found at http:www.ncoa.org/. This is the site of the National Council on Aging, a group dedicated to "improving the lives of the old." There are sections on "benefits access", "falls prevention", "physical activity" and the like. Another, and, to my mind particularly pertinent, queries, under the title "Aging Well at Home": "Where do you want to spend the rest of your life?." Every day, this sections tells us, 10 million Americans need help with tasks like eating, dressing and bathing and that more than 13 million older adults could pay for help - but their money is tied up in their homes. Here one can find information on how to find, and finance, home services. The NCOA's says: "We help older people live healthier longer."
Another, perhaps a bit more off-beat, fount of health tips can be found at www.drweil.com. The bearded Dr. Weil looks you straight in the eye and offers a resource for "healthy living based on an integrative medicine philosophy." This is described as "healing-oriented medicine that takes account ot the whole person (body, mind and spirit) including all aspects of lifestyle." Integrative medicine, he hastens to add, "neither rejects conventional medicine nor accepts alternative therapies uncritically." The beaming, no nonsense doctor offers a free health "assessment" and claims he can improve the way you feel in "just eight weeks."
The Internet constitutes a mine of information for those seeking data on well-being. There are plenty of intriguing nuggets to be found.
‘Tis The Season To Be Grateful
by Gayle Geary, Board President
The holidays are here and it’s time to give thanks. We have so much to be grateful for and we’d like to take this opportunity to acknowledge those who have been such an important part of our success. And that means you...
Our Members – Thank you all for being social entrepreneurs in our new, innovative movement in aging. We are truly creating a new way of living.
Our Volunteers – Thank you to the many people (members and non-members) who have made phone calls, helped in the office, planned programs, hosted chats, assisted at events, solved computer problems, cooked food, gave rides, and so much more.
Our Staff – Thank you, Christabel and Gayle, for making it all happen, with grace and creativity.
Our Board Members – Thank you for your dedication and long hours in bringing the vision for San Francisco Village to life.
Our Advisory Council – Thank you for providing your knowledge and expertise to help guide San Francisco Village.
Our Partners – Thank you supporting us in creating our Village. A special thanks to the IOA for bringing us with you to your wonderful new building.
Service Providers & Vendors – Thank you for helping us provide our members with the services they need to live comfortably and securely in their own homes everyday.
And thank you everyone – individuals and foundations – who has donated funds to the Village. We wouldn’t be where we are today without you.
Happy Holidays!
Spotlight On All Of You 2011!
by Marsha Robertson, San Francisco Village Volunteer
One of the best ways to look back at the San Francisco Village in 2010 is to celebrate the opportunities that came to be as a result of new strategies, programs, and partnerships. And it’s safe to say that many of the evolving goals and directions would not have taken place without the energy and experience of our new Executive Director, Christabel Cheung!
Launched in January 2009, San Francisco Village has now grown into a lively community of 121 members, 2 full-time staff, 14 board members, 19 advisory council members and a dedicated group of almost 30 village volunteers. And a mutual goal has emerged that is easily stated: Our villagers do for each other, what good family members would do if they lived nearby. And it’s all one phone call away!
Since Christabel arrived in May 2010, The Village has been expanding its programs at record speeds. Although referrals for vetted and discounted services will remain a cornerstone, there are some very compelling programs that became active in 2010 and more that are being introduced in 2011: 24 x 7 Access to Immediate Support, Coordinated Communities of Intergenerational Support, Protection in Discharge & Transition to Home, and Education on Healthy Aging & Finding Meaning in Third Age, to name a few.
Here’s a sampling of what’s ahead:
The 24x7 Phone Access Program is now offered in partnership with the Friendship Line at the Institute of Aging. In a nutshell, it provides live phone support 24 hours per day, every day -- with features that include most importantly, after-hours service for SF Village, Daily Medicine Reminders, Daily Check in Calls as needed, Support for Emotional Wellness.
The TYZE Personal Networks, a project made possible with a grant from the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation, is an online personal network that supports people experiencing life challenges ranging from disabilities to aging. It’s a promising way to build a community, share information and send or receive support from friends, families and caregivers. Stay tuned for more details...
Transition to Home, a new program (funded for 2011) is being created to ensure protection in the hospital discharge process for SFV members. With the help of SF Village member-volunteers Ellie and Larry Lurie as well as Liz Cormier, the program will be committed to 5 goals:
- Coordinate discharge
- Make sure food is at home upon discharge.
- Secure informal help until formal care is in place.
- SFV office to connect to formal services.
- Coordinate transportation to first post-hospital appointment.
And last but not least, a new educational curriculum called WISE, which will tap the knowledge and resources in our own community that support:
- Wellness – health care and prevention
- Innovation – latest breakthroughs in healthy aging
- Support – services for aging at home
- Engagement – volunteerism, employment, activism
So fasten your seatbelts for the ride ahead...and see you next year!
Also - Kudos to all of you who continue to support us with your time. We’re grateful to Carol Livingston and Yope Posthumus, who continue to organize Volunteer Opportunities for members, to Sarah Goldman for enthusiastic coordination of Play-Readings, to Margaret Johnson for managing the Village Book Group, to Glady Thacher for leading “Things That Matter as We Age,“ and to Eva Auchincloss for her leadership of the members’ committee that supports the Village in so many ways.
 Guest Contributor
Holiday Survival Guide
by Diane Wilson, MFT - Agewise Counseling, San Francisco Village Service Provider
Are you ready for the holidays? It’s that time of year again where you are invited to intimate parties of 500, have days where you “shop till you drop”, and wish the punch were spiked with something stronger than cranberry juice. Actually, the holidays can be a lovely time, and here are a few tips to survive the holidays intact…..
First, preserve your energy. Plan your shopping outings. If you can shop online for books and CD’s (and save the shipping fees as well as long lines) then by all means do it. Shop during the week, if possible, and avoid lunchtime and after work hours. Plan some “fun“ times with friends or by yourself that are relaxing and restorative, such as a massage or a spa treatment or even a tea date. There are lovely tearooms in the city that serve sandwiches and desserts in a beautiful setting.
Secondly, you don’t have to accept every invitation you receive. Even though December is “party time”, only accept invitations to events you really want to attend. In that way you will truly enjoy these special times with friends and family and not wear yourself out. And when you feel tired, it’s okay to call it a night and discreetly leave. A good night’s sleep will prepare you for whatever is on your agenda tomorrow.
Lastly, holiday season can evoke memories of times past, when family members and special friends who once played an integral role in your life may no longer be with you. You may notice you feel sad when you hear certain songs or attend gatherings that remind you of these people. If your loss is a recent one, then you may need some time alone or with a close friend to share some special memories. Holidays are often lovely and challenging for many of us. I hope you enjoy your holidays, and make some new memories that will be joyful ones.
Diane Wilson, MFT Agewise Counseling 415 440-1243 1526 Franklin Street, Suite 206 San Francisco,CA 94109 Diane@agewisecounseling.com

IOA Cable Car Caroling
Purchase Your Tickets Before It's Too Late!
Join IOA in our 24th year hosting this heartwarming event.
Cable Car Caroling brings a special sparkle and joy to our senior neighbors in San Francisco.
When and Where
Sunday, December 5th -- Noon to 5:30pm
Presidio Officers Club - Free Parking All Day!
Tour the city on motorized cable cars and sing to elders in senior homes and private residences. After caroling, share a festive holiday dinner at the Presidio Officers Club. Enjoy a silent auction and our exciting prize raffle.
Reservations and Pricing
Reserve your spot online today! Children 6-16 are only $10. Children 5 and under ride for free! Adults are from $35 - $45.
Family packages and discount pricing available.
A Great Event for Kids
Cable Car Caroling invites children of all ages to enjoy the holiday season in a new way, actively serving homebound seniors in our community. Seniors love seeing the kids' excitement and joy, and hearing their sweet voices. Cable Car Caroling is a great way to help your children practice giving to others in a fun and festive atmosphere.
Ticket and auction proceeds support the Center for Elderly Suicide Prevention and Grief Related Services, a program of Institute on Aging.
Questions? Please contact Marie Bautista at (415) 750-4180 x143 or via email at cablecarcaroling@ioaging.org.
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SF Village Events and Activities
We want you to attend any and all of these and please bring a friend. As we enter fall, we are looking for members to host Lunch Bunch events or start up groups such as knitting, bridge, etc. Any ideas or topics you have for events and activities are always welcomed.
You can easily register to attend any event by clicking on the link listing for that event. You'll need to be registered on the SF Village website in order to register for any calendar events - CREATE AN ACCOUNT HERE if you haven't already. Of course, you can also still call the office at 415-387-1375 or email us at: info@sfvillage.org.
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SF Village Programs
Date:
Friday, May 18 > 9:30 am - 11:00 pm
Event:
Description:
Yoga 101 for Beginners hosted by Aurele Carlat
Cost for SF Village members is $7 per class
Contact Aurele directly at 415-425-5086 or email at aurelecarlat@gmail.com
Location:
120 St. Germain Avenue near Twin Peaks
Date:
Saturday, May 19 > 9:30 am - 12:30 pm
Event:
Description:
Led by our staff and our community partner, Home Instead Senior Care, the training includes a discussion of issues facing seniors, myths and facts about aging, active listening techniques, identifying hazards in the home, and more.
Location:
Presidio Branch Library, 3150 Sacramento Street
Date:
Thursday, May 24 > 9:00 am - 10:30 am
Event:
Description:
Yoga for Levels 1-2 (some experience required)
hosted by Aurele Carlat
Cost for SF Village members is $7 per class
Contact Aurele directly at 415-425-5086 or email: aurelecarlat@gmail.com
Location:
120 St. Germain Avenue near Twin Peaks
Date:
Thursday, May 24 > 11:00 am - 12:00 pm
Event:
Description:
New Class: Chair Yoga for Beginners.
Learn the basics of yoga using chairs and other supportive props.
4 Thursdays (May 3, May 10, May 17, May 24)
Location:
Date:
Friday, May 25 > 9:30 am - 11:00 pm
Event:
Description:
Yoga 101 for Beginners hosted by Aurele Carlat
Cost for SF Village members is $7 per class
Contact Aurele directly at 415-425-5086 or email at aurelecarlat@gmail.com
Location:
120 St. Germain Avenue near Twin Peaks
Date:
Thursday, May 31 > 9:00 am - 10:30 am
Event:
Description:
Yoga for Levels 1-2 (some experience required)
hosted by Aurele Carlat
Cost for SF Village members is $7 per class
Contact Aurele directly at 415-425-5086 or email: aurelecarlat@gmail.com
Location:
120 St. Germain Avenue near Twin Peaks
Date:
Wednesday, June 13 > 5:00 pm - 7:00 pm
Event:
Description:
We will read Beth Henley's "Am I Blue" from our collection of plays (Plays in One Act edited by Daniel Halpern).
Location:
home of Tom Benet, 2637 Union Street (between Divisadero and Broderick)
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Activities of Interest
Date:
Wednesday, June 6 >
Event:
Description:
The one-hour guided journey held at noon on the first Wednesday of each month. RSVP @ 415-561-5418 or presidio@presidiotrust.gov
Location:
Meet outside the Presidio Officer's Club
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